“I Want Mamajee! I’m Scared! Kakak Athisha Is Leaving,” – Fatimah Diserang Anxiety Jam 4 Pagi, Rindu Arwah Adam Didam

Perkongsian terbaru di laman Instagram The Family UK nyata menyentuh perasaan apabila Fatimah difahamkan telah diserang Anxiety.

Dikatakan, kejadian berlaku kira-kira pukul 4.00 pagi.

Malah, setiap kata yang diluahkan anak kecil ini seperti menggambarkan kesedihan yang bersarang dalam hatinya.

Menurut si ibu, pada mulanya dia menyangka Fatimah mendapat mimpi buruk.

Namun dia sedar ada sesuatu yang tidak kena apabila Fatimah mula berdiam diri dan seakan-akan sukar bernafas.

Apa yang menyedihkan, Fatimah turut merindui arwah Adam Didam dan ketakutan apabila Athisha pulang ke Malaysia dan tidak akan kembali lagi bersama mereka.

“ANXIETY ATTACK

“Semalam, Fatiman mendapat serangan anxiety pada pukul 4 pagi. Pada mulanya saya menyangka dia hanya mempunyai mimpi buruk, jadi saya minta dia tidur kembali.

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“Dia berdiam diri dan tidak mahu bercakap. Selepas beberapa minit, dia mula bernafas dengan kuat. Dan pada waktu itu saya tahu ada sesuatu yang tidak kena. Saya tenangkan diri dahulu jika tidak keadaan akan jadi lebih teruk.

“Jadi saya dekatkan diri dan mintanya bertenang. Fatimah mula menangis.

“Saya mahu Mamajee. Saya takut. Kakak Athisha akan pergi dan tidak akan pulang seperti Mamajee,” kata Fatimah.

“Pada waktu ini saya sedar, punca serangan anxiety kerana kepulangan Athisha ke Malaysia sempena sambutan Krismas. Perpisahan menyebabkannya diserang panik. Dia tidak mahu ke sekolah, menolak sarapan pagi dan sering menangis.

“Namun syukur kami punya lebihan lasagne, makanan kegemarannya. Selepas makan tengahari, suami membawa Fatimah keluar membeli belah untuk menghirup udara segar.

“Alhamdulillah, dia bertambah baik dan bersedia untuk ke sekolah,” kongsinya.

Menurutnya, serangan ini bukan hanya terjadi kepada orang dewasa, kanak-kanak juga tidak terkecuali.

“Saya kongsikan isu ini untuk semua ibu bapa di luar sana. Anxiety itu wujud, bukan sahaja di kalangan orang dewasa, namun juga kanak-kanak.

“Ia bukan petanda kita lemah, malah bukan untuk mencari perhatian. Ia adalah proses normal kesedihan. Tolong jangan biarkan emosi anak-anak terabai.

“Jika anda melalui proses yang sama, ketahuilah anda tidak keseorangan. Terus bertahan. Kuatkan diri. Jika ia bertambah parah, tolong dapatkan rawatan profesional.

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“Terima kasih Athisha kerana mengangkat telefon pada tengah malam dan maaf kerana membuat kamu risau.

“Tolong jangan fikir berlebihan kerana Fatimah sudah ok. Selamat bercuti dan jumpa lagi selepas tahun baru,” tulisnya panjang lebar.

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Last night, Fatimah had an anxiety attack ‪at 4am‬. At first, I thought she was just having a bad dream, so I told her to go back to sleep. She was quiet for a while, refusing to talk. But a few minutes later, she started to hyperventilate. Only then did I realise there was something wrong with her. The very first thing that I did was calm myself down, because if I panic, she will get worse. So I pulled myself together and told her to calm down. She started crying… . She then said, "I want Mamajee! I’m scared! Kakak Athisha is leaving and she won’t come back like Mamajee." . At that point, I understood that the cause of her anxiety attack was because Athisha was going back to Malaysia for the Christmas holidays. So now, I realise that separation seems to trigger her anxiety. She couldn’t make it to school, refused to have breakfast and she was crying on and off for a few hours. But luckily, we had some leftover lasagna – her favourite – so we finally managed to convince her to eat. After lunch, Mr Dad took her out shopping for a bit of fresh air. Alhamdulillah, she looks a lot better now and she said that she’s going back to school. . I’m sharing this to reach out to other parents out there. Anxiety is real. Anxiety exists. Not only in adults, but children too. Anxiety is not a sign of weakness. Anxiety is not attention-seeking. Anxiety is a common part of the grieving process. Please do not neglect your children’s emotional wellbeing. If you too are going through a similar experience, please know that you are not alone. Hang in there. Be strong. And if things get worse, please seek professional help. . Love, Mrs Mom xx #wisemomsays . 💌Thank you Kakak @athishakhan for picking up the phone in the middle of the night, and sorry for making you worried. Please don’t think too much – Fatimah is OK now. Enjoy your holiday. We’ll see you after the New Year. . 💌Thank you @drauntie.uk for always being ready to support us, no matter where you are. We miss you so much. Can’t wait to see you soon! . 💌Thank you Mama Love @noorkartini for taking time out of your busy schedule to talk to Fatimah even though you aren’t well yourself. We pray that you’ll feel better soon.

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“I Want Mamajee! I’m Scared! Kakak Athisha Is Leaving,” – Fatimah Diserang Anxiety Jam 4 Pagi, Rindu Arwah Adam Didam “I Want Mamajee! I’m Scared! Kakak Athisha Is Leaving,” – Fatimah Diserang Anxiety Jam 4 Pagi, Rindu Arwah Adam Didam

Terdahulu, chef selebriti, Adam Mahamed Ismail, 29, atau lebih dikenali sebagai Adamdidam meninggal dunia di rumah ibu bapanya di Kota Bharu akibat jangkitan paru-paru, 19 Mei lalu.

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